I need encouragement!... I firmly believe, as I know you do, women should not live with a man prior to marriage, nor have sex with them before they are joined in matrimony. It is very hard in this day and age to stay committed to such morals, especially with the endless scrutiny of my peers.
More >>
When I was 18, I thought I was 'all grown up' and part of the way I wanted to prove it was to have sex and lose my virginity. 
Whenever we change a behavior (i.e., developing an exercise program, working at losing weight) it's not uncommon to start out all "gung-ho" and then slip back into old habits. That's the challenge facing one listener: