I knew my boyfriend was the one because he would give me direct, honest answers and feedback. His remarks were framed to let me know the truth rather than make statements calculated to tell me what I wanted to hear or to manipulate my opinions. He opened doors for me on our first date, and still does after 10 years of marriage. He told me up front his desire is for me to be happy, and he can't read minds. If there is something I want or wish for, I need to tell him and not "hope" he figures it out. If he can accommodate me, he does. I learned to speak the truth. It works! I knew he was the one because he let me see who he really is, and he encouraged and supported me in learning who I really am. Both of us are mature adults who can be happy if we are alone, but life is so much better when we are together! He IS the one!  

Patty