I was thinking, the most BEAUTIFUL women are the ones who are selfless. I love it when I look at a woman’s page on social media and it’s nice and sweet: no club pictures, no pictures of her in the mirror, no vulgar, drama-filled updates… just her. I realize that most women draw their cues from other women. They look at big butts, huge breasts, hairstyles, and lifestyles of other women and try to imitate it thinking that’s what men want. Well, its NOT. Yes, we give those women attention, yes those women get flown places, yes they get taken shopping, but at the end of the day to us they are simply something to do (meaning sex). The treatment they get is part of a contract: spend a little money, a little time and her legs will always be open for you. Dudes do just enough to keep them interested. 

What men, GOOD MEN, REALLY want is a GOOD woman! PERIOD. Give a man your undivided attention, time and affection and he will give you love and respect. If you cater to him, nurture him, mend his wounds and encourage his dreams, he will lay down his life for you! A man, a REAL MAN, takes pride in being a man! He will sacrifice EVERYTHING if it will put one smile on his woman’s face. No mountain will be too high to climb and no ocean too deep to swim. A man will go to the ends of the Earth to provide for the RIGHT woman.

Ladies, take pride in being a WOMAN. Take pride in the fact that you are the backbone of mankind. The power, majesty and beauty of civilization comes from your womb! We men recognize that. We long for the woman who understands that as well. Allow us to take the lead. Not to control you, but to protect you. Let us clear the path so your walk will be made easy. Submit to us. Not for us to stand over you, but so we can extend our hand to lift you up, over our heads. Ladies, in our eyes a REAL man’s eyes, there is NOTHING more precious than a woman. NOTHING. 

One thing that I have realized about relationships is that people are continuously responding to the actions of others. What that means is, the best way to be happy, the best way to have a healthy, meaningful relationship is to give what you expect to get. If you want to be cherished, respected and valued, give us those things! The treatment that a man gives to his woman starts and ends with her. Consider us, our feelings, our expectations, and the fact that we want to be treated EXACTLY how you want to be treated and watch as the world opens up to you. Ladies, we love you, we need you, and we want you to understand that the way you treat us and YOURSELF dictates the way that we treat you. Lastly, understand that your beauty and value ARE NOT defined by how you look or what you own. Your beauty and value is defined by your heart and its ability to give and RECEIVE love. 

I’m done being sappy. 

Terry