November 11, 2014
Conquering Immature and Self-Destructive Habits


Dear Dr. Laura:

I'm 22 and am experiencing the first few months of adulthood after graduating from college, which includes working full-time and fully supporting myself financially. It's been exciting, confusing and a bit lonely, but your advice has helped me focus and gain control over my life.  I want to share some things I've done to conquer immature and self-destructive habits, thanks to you:

• Stop following everyone on Facebook. I now only follow club groups that I belong to or pages that interest me, period.


• Take responsibility for your own actions - past and present. I've played the victim for far too long.


• There are always two sides to every story.  Own up to your part and learn from it.


• The best advice I got from you - if you're not ready to marry, it's not the time to date.


• Allow yourself "alone time," and pursue things that interest you. It'll make you a more interesting person, and create opportunities to make new friends.

Thank you for all you do.  Listening to you is no longer just a "long car ride" thing!

Ashley








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