Dear Dr. Laura, 

I chose to make huge changes after 20 years of living near/with my parents. Both Mom and Dad got to live their lives in the city they chose and I was glad to help make that happen. When Mom passed, I did what you aren't supposed to do -- I moved to where I wanted to live. It was the right thing for me, but I can't recommend it. 

As a result of all the changes I am very, very lonely. I know I have to find folk I can laugh and love with. I am a divorced mom who raised her sons without dating. Now, I am too ornery for any man!! When I am the loneliest, I find a piano in a public place and play for me. When I leave, folks tell me how they enjoyed the music and that is always nice to hear. One man gave me a very good tip and a woman shared a childhood memory when I played "Sunrise, Sunset" from "Fiddler on the Roof".  That made my day. I am an out-of-practice accomplished player/teacher who isn't doing either right now. 

I love where I live and know I'll succeed in having a wonderful life because that is what I work towards daily. 

Thank you Dr. Laura, 

Adina 

P.S. I wanted to major in music therapy, but it was in its infancy so I did piano performance.