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A SIMPLE THING THAT CAN MAKE YOUR HUSBAND'S FACE LIGHT UP! |
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2008-10-17
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A Simple Thing That Can Make Your Husband's Face Light Up!
Dear Dr. Laura,
Thank you for continually teaching me and many other women how to be a good wife and mother, I try everyday to improve a little.
The other day you had a caller ask if she should get up at 5am to see her husband off to work even though she is getting up in the middle of the night with her baby, and you replied "He would really like that and appreciate that."
My husband has been getting up every morning by himself and showers, gets ready and then goes & makes his lunch for the day. He has never complained about doing this task himself and even if I am up & I ask if he wants help, he will say no thanks. But after I heard that call, the next morning I jumped out of bed when his alarm went off, kissed him, then ran to the kitchen to make his lunch (of course with a love note in it) and the morning coffee and had his oatmeal waiting for him, while he got showered and dressed for work. I will never forget how much his face lit up when he walked into the kitchen and realized that I had everything ready for him. Yes I am up an hour before my toddler son gets up, but it is well worth seeing my husband so happy, and we actually have some time to converse now in the morning. After doing this for a few days, it just has become a habit. I look forward to waking up and making my husband happy and I also realized that after I see him off, I have some "me" time, which I hear mother's complain about not having enough of, I get to read my bible and sip on some coffee and enjoy some peace and quietness.
It is the little things that really make a BIG difference.
I have also heard some women complain about being a little overweight and they think their husbands are not attracted to them, I do have some weight to lose and I too thought that maybe my husband would like me a bit thinner, I have been working out really hard and I will lose the weight, I am determined. But what I realized the other night, is that men just really want to see you try and work hard. It was too late to go to the gym tonight, so as my husband watched football, I put on my itunes and went to town, I was in an oversized shirt and sweating like a pig, but by the end of my work out, my husband was so turned on and thought that I was the sexiest thing. So ladies, get moving, your husband will enjoy the effort!
Thank you for all that you do,
A proud stay at home mommy!
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