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I Overheard Two Women Gossiping
I Overheard Two Women Gossiping
07/21/2014

(originally published January 21, 2009)

On a recent Sunday afternoon I was having my favorite salad (spinach salad - hold the dressing) at one of my favorite restaurants, when I couldn't help noticing two well-coiffed and dressed women having lunch (salads and pizza) at the table directly to my right side.  

I was not intentionally trying to listen to what they were saying - I promise you! - it's just that every now and then, the noise lulled and I could hear one of them say, "Yes, she is so nice/smart/talented, etc.".  I don't believe they were talking about the same woman each time, but I was so impressed that two women "gossiping" over lunch were - brace yourself - saying nice things about another woman or women!

When we got ready to leave, I went over to the table and admitted that I could hear some of what they were saying - although I wasn't really trying to - and that I was immensely impressed that having had the opportunity to be critical or catty, that they were both speaking so nicely about others.  I further said, "You two must be really nice people!"


They smiled at me - with distinct surprise - and one of them immediately said, "You must be a nice person too to stop and say this to us."


Wow - a real "karma" moment.  


Why don't you look carefully around you and take the opportunity to compliment folks you see who are doing the "right thing."

Tags: Behavior, Character-Courage-Conscience, Relationships
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