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05/01/2014
Dr. Laura,
You always give advice on how to be the best wife you can be and I mentally check off each item you mention. I am a stay-at-home mom. I have dinner ready for him when he comes home. I'm happy to see him. I thank him for "Knockin' out that rent.." And I always made sure we were intimate. I THOUGHT I was my husband's girlfriend. Boy was I wrong. I now know what you really mean when you say be your husband's girlfriend.
Ladies, remember what you did to "get" your husband? Remember how flirtatious and sexy you were? My husband does not care that my body is shaped a bit differently after three children. He still wants me and wants me to really want him. Don't give me the excuse that you are tired. I have three children, two dogs, a cat two hamsters and two fish. I'm tired and the last thing I want at night is some hanky panky. You know what? It is not all about what we want. We want our husbands to do this and that, and be this and that, and do you know what they want from us? Sex. Not just sex but "OMG - I have to have YOU sex."
So Dr. Laura is right. Put on his undershirt and nothing else. Give him the attention HE needs. And can you imagine what will happen? My husband wakes up singing and doing dishes! He gets the kids ready for school, cleans the kitty litter, takes the garbage out, prepares himself for his work day AND then takes the kids to school all while I am hiding in my room until 7:30 a.m. He greets me with kisses and playful grabs and all is well. It may take you a few times to really want to do this and get excited about being frisky, but once you do... you and he will remember what it was like between you two when you first made love. You will feel wonderful, he will feel wonderful, the kiddies will feel wonderful, and the dogs will feel wonderful...
Shari
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