I have been married for a little over a year and been with my husband for almost 5 years. I am a nanny and tend to spill over my nanny hood, or in other words, I find myself 'mothering' my husband sometimes. He also has expressed to me that I treat him like I am his mom. I hate hearing that because I want him to know that I do support him and that he is capable to live his own life. I struggle with nitpicking and I've been listening to you. I get it. I get it that it's not up to me what or how my husband thinks.
He does such a great job taking care of me, putting me first, which shows he is selfless. I know he puts his needs last and I don't want him to do that. So by listening to your podcasts and reading your blog posts, it has given me some clarity on the words and thoughts I express to him. I am an old-fashioned kinda girl and I love how you describe how relationships these days are so careless and more about electronics instead. I went onto Amazon and bought your book. Looking forward to reading it and learning how to feed my husbands manhood and soul.
Thank you, soo much for all your advice and honesty. I'm always learning one day or thought at a time!