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Leaving Your Child to Return to Work - A How-to Guide
Leaving Your Child to Return to Work - A How-to Guide
01/11/2012

The following malarkey was taken from a work-distributed newsletter:

The Toughest Transition: Leaving Your Child to Return to Work
Your parental leave is drawing to a close. As you get ready to trade your infant's coos for the steady hum of the workplace, you'll probably notice lots of questions, fears and emotions starting to surface. You can make your transition from home to work much easier if you consider the changes that lie ahead.

Be Prepared for Strong Feelings
Before you pack your briefcase and prepare your work wardrobe, ready yourself for the emotional impact of leaving your baby. Most parents experience doubt, guilt and grief as they re-enter the workplace. Admit these feelings to yourself and talk the m over with your spouse. Seek out people who understand you and your situation, such as other parents and family members.

Understand the Psychology of Separation
Separation is easier for babies younger than 6 months. That's the age an infant becomes more firmly attached to the parents and will protest being left with anyone else. Your child will protest when you leave this is necessary and healthy. But it's also important that she develop a strong, caring relationship with a trusted caregiver. Children in day care may develop less intense emotional reactions. When you come into view, your baby may turn away, as if to gather her emotions. These intense reactions are necessary precursors to a passionate reunion with you.

Shift Gears Gradually
If you've hired an in-home caregiver, arrange for the person to spend time with you and your baby before you return to work. Begin with one or two hours during which you demonstrate your method of feeding, diapering a nd putting your baby to sleep. Next, have the caregiver come for half a day while you leave the house for part of that time. When you finally do return to work, try to ease yourself back into a schedule by working half-days or at home part of the day. If you've chosen a day care center, spend time with your infant at the location, getting to know the people and routines.

Adjustment Happens Over Time
A few other ideas can make leaving easier. It helps to remember that in the hands of a trusted, competent child care provider, your child may have positive experiences with other children she might not have had staying home alone with you. Also, as a working parent, you're helping your child learn to adapt to change and develop the confidence she can overcome her fears and frustrations.

What a bunch of fallacies,

Arturo

Tags: Morals, Ethics, Values, Parenting, SAHM stay-at-home mom, Values
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