He’s not sure how he feels. When you’re with someone for almost a year and he’s still not sure where he stands, he’s not that interested in you.
He tries to change you. Instead of appreciating who you are as an individual, he criticizes, finds faults, and nitpicks.
He’s not affectionate. He doesn’t want to hold hands, look into your eyes, or cuddle. If you’re initiating affection and all he’s initiating is sex, then you know you’re at cross-purposes. It’s true that some guys are just shy and introverted, but that’s also going to be a problem in the long haul because the chances of him changing aren’t great.
You haven’t met his family. Unless his family is dangerous or destructive, he should want you to meet them.
You make all the plans. You can’t be the only one putting in the effort.
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