October 12, 2015
The Importance of Love


Dear Dr. Laura, 

My husband died on July 8 of pancreatic cancer, nine months after being diagnosed.  He was 53.  Rather than put all the focus on the devastating diagnosis, letting cancer rule his time, we decided to take control.  I was his cheerleader.  It was all about living each day as it came, finding things to be grateful for, like unexpected rainbows, deer sightings, a good nap, laughter and even tears.  We shared our favorite memories, thanked God for the gift of each other, and cherished each day.

I tried to think of his favorite things and did them.  We held each other tight, and shared with our 18 year old daughter, showing her the importance of love and communication.  We filmed a father-daughter dance so that when or if she gets married, she will have it to remember her father who loved her so.  

Some people didn't understand the need for positive talk, uplifting spirit, God and prayer.  I protected my husband, and I learned from YOU, Dr. Laura, the importance of love, communication and standing by your man.  My daughter started college this year, and I went to my first group loss support group this week.  My heart hurts all the time and I miss him so much, but I am walking forward, knowing he will always be with me.  Thank you, Dr. Laura for teaching me how to be a better wife and a good Mom.

Sincerely,

Dawn


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM