April 18, 2012How Men See Love and Sex
I tell men and women that, of all the women who post their opinions about how men think, you, Dr. Laura, are light years ahead of your competition. This excerpt from your blog is a really great example:
"…this is the measure that men have of how much we love them -- whether we're willing to accept them (literally) into our bodies, whether we're willing to open up to them -- this is how men register that their woman loves them."
You would think that this is an easy enough concept to grasp, but I am constantly amazed at how few women truly understand this. If you tell a wife this, often you get disbelief, and sometimes even scorn, that her man could think this way!
For men, sex IS how they feel accepted and loved, and conversely, when a woman consistently rejects a man sexually they are telling him they don't love him. This flipside seems to be equally confusing for women to understand.
You are exactly right, Dr Laura…and you rock!
Posted by Staff at 3:30 PM