I used to feel like I was the perfect one in our marriage and my husband was the one messing everything up. I even threatened divorce. Imagine my surprise when it finally dawned on me that I was the one who was messing everything up! I wanted to control my strong and smart husband. He was polite enough to remain with me and not be rude, but he pretty much stayed away from me, which I found annoying.
I took a hard look at myself and began learning about the role of a wife. I made a big change in myself and transformed my marriage and my life. I’m fortunate that my husband has opened his heart to me again. It’s like the beginning all over again. I can NOW say that I am my husband’s girlfriend, cheerleader and safe place.
I’ve also learned that it’s more important how you come across to the people living in your home than to your friends or co-workers. My children are now far more relaxed and carefree, and I love that they can feel the “good vibes” in our home.
Rebecca
I Didn't Understand The Role Of A Wife
