Chivalry is an important quality of a manโs behavior because it lets you know about his character patience, caring, and point of view. Hereโs what true chivalry looks like:
- He opens and holds doors for you. When you drive somewhere, he opens the door, takes you by the hand, and helps you in and out.
- He makes sure you get home OK. He doesnโt just drop you off. He waits to see if you safely get inside.
- He gives you his jacket when itโs cold. It should be hard-wired in his brain to protect you.
- He cares about your opinions. He listens to what you think and believe.
- He has your back. When thereโs an awkward situation, heโs there by your side.
- Heโs reliable. If he says heโs going to do something, he does it.
- He meets your friends and family. He takes interest in the people close to you because he wants to know you better.
- He expresses small gestures of affection. Publicly grabbing your breasts or butt is not a gesture of affection. Thatโs just him showing heโs a dominant male that owns you. Itโs his statement to the other men around that โI have a big one, thatโs why I have her.โ It has nothing to do with you.