Chivalry is an important quality of a manβs behavior because it lets you know about his character patience, caring, and point of view. Hereβs what true chivalry looks like:
- He opens and holds doors for you. When you drive somewhere, he opens the door, takes you by the hand, and helps you in and out.
- He makes sure you get home OK. He doesnβt just drop you off. He waits to see if you safely get inside.
- He gives you his jacket when itβs cold. It should be hard-wired in his brain to protect you.
- He cares about your opinions. He listens to what you think and believe.
- He has your back. When thereβs an awkward situation, heβs there by your side.
- Heβs reliable. If he says heβs going to do something, he does it.
- He meets your friends and family. He takes interest in the people close to you because he wants to know you better.
- He expresses small gestures of affection. Publicly grabbing your breasts or butt is not a gesture of affection. Thatβs just him showing heβs a dominant male that owns you. Itβs his statement to the other men around that βI have a big one, thatβs why I have her.β It has nothing to do with you.