I have listened to you for years and somehow thought I was doing what was necessary to care for my husband. WRONG!
I finally got my head out of my rear after discovering yet another emotional/sexting affair my husband was having with a woman he knows. I kept wondering why he was doing this to ME. Then I reframed the question to ask myself what I was doing (or not doing) to him to not nourish our marriage.
Well, well, well. I was NOT being my husbandβs girlfriend!
Iβm happy to write that I have put in the work and done everything to save my marriage by appreciating, acknowledging and showing affection to my wonderful boyfriend.
I almost lost a 33-year marriage and a terrific man because he was not my priority and I wasnβt showing him the love and affection that he deserves. And the bottom line is that it was EASY! There was no need to keep score or put my βfeelingsβ in a situation that just requires me to acknowledge his contributions and hug and kiss him daily!
Carlie
I Almost Lost My 33-Year Marriage