I was married at 17, and even then, I knew it wasn’t going to be easy. I knew everything NOT to do, since I grew up in a situation where there were drugs, poor parenting, and physical and emotional abuse. I chose, however, to make better choices, be a better person, and not dwell in the past.
I’d like to share with you some of the wisdom I gained from being in a long marriage:
- Love your husband and don’t expect him to be perfect. I assure you, YOU are not perfect!
- Teach your children responsibility, loyalty, honesty, and model for them a good work ethic. Teach them to honor the family they will create someday.
- To parents of grown children: if you did your job, they will do theirs, so don’t offer your advice. If asked, really think before you answer, since it’s hard to stop treating our kids like kids no matter how old they are.
And, of course, I want to acknowledge my husband of 38 years for being an amazing man, since all the other ones I met along the way before him fell short. I thank him for not just being in my life, but for being with me in the life we created. I love him now more than ever.
Veronica
Wisdom Gained From a Long Marriage
