A while ago, I heard you discussing the fear of getting out of oneβs comfort zone, and the same day I heard that, I had an opportunity to be an extra on a national TV show. Iβm not an actor and donβt live anywhere near Hollywood, but I thought it might be fun. Iβm in my 50s, married with kids. I work from home and donβt have a lot of outside contact. And I tend to be on the shy side, so going all alone to do something so completely different was definitely outside my comfort zone.
It was an hourβs drive away, early in the morning, and they were shooting outside, so it would be chilly. And it was going to be a long day. I was mostly afraid of being all alone with no one to talk to. But when I heard you talk about leaving your comfort zone, I bravely committed to going.
As it turned out, I met many interesting people. From the moment I arrived, I struck up a conversation with everyone around me, mostly aspiring actors. What a fun group of people! Iβve never laughed so much! I even exchanged phone numbers with a few of them, and weβve made plans to get together. This was so far from what I had imagined it to be that if it werenβt for you, I donβt think I would have had the nerve to go, and I would have missed out on so much!
Lori
I Stepped Out of My Comfort Zone